I am so sorry I spelled your name wrong, Revai! Old eyes and early morning are not a good combination, I guess.
Your post tells me you know the answer to your question. I wonder if you could attend a few sessions of couples counseling? It might give him a better ability to express himself. He doesn't seem to feel safe doing that, which probably has nothing to do with you but is likely linked to how he was raised, fear of the response when he expresses a dissenting opinion and that sort of thing. Maybe with a little counseling he could learn to feel safe expressing himself.
I'm glad things were better yesterday. I do hope he finds a way to talk to you so things can get on a more even keel. Please let us know how you do!
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I am so sorry I spelled your name wrong, Revai! Old eyes and early morning are not a good combination, I guess.
Your post tells me you know the answer to your question. I wonder if you could attend a few sessions of couples counseling? It might give him a better ability to express himself. He doesn't seem to feel safe doing that, which probably has nothing to do with you but is likely linked to how he was raised, fear of the response when he expresses a dissenting opinion and that sort of thing. Maybe with a little counseling he could learn to feel safe expressing himself.
I'm glad things were better yesterday. I do hope he finds a way to talk to you so things can get on a more even keel. Please let us know how you do!
June 10, 2010 - 6:28amThis Comment
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