I feel for all of you in that situation. I've been in that situation to and recently have found my self in it again. I've been with my fiance for 5 years now, and ive always known he liked porn, cause all guys do. But, a year or two ago he started wanting me to do things to him while he watched it, and on a couple occassions wanted to have sex while he watched it, but covered my face. I was not ok with this and made sure he knew about it. For a while he was just like "well i like porn, so deal with it"! I considered ending it, but he apologized for doing all of that stuff, so i didnt. I bought a brand new laptop a few months ago, and told him not to look up anything dirty on my laptop because it was strictly for school, expensive, and i wanted to keep it clean. Well, recently I was searching for something on google, and a girls name popped up in my search history. After checking my "deleted temp file" I found that he has been looking up naked girls, and dirty movies on my laptop. When I confronted him about it, he denied it, and said i was trying to act like his mother. Is it wrong for me to want the people who may use my laptop to respect what i ask them to not do on it?? Especially when I'm the one that paid for it??
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I feel for all of you in that situation. I've been in that situation to and recently have found my self in it again. I've been with my fiance for 5 years now, and ive always known he liked porn, cause all guys do. But, a year or two ago he started wanting me to do things to him while he watched it, and on a couple occassions wanted to have sex while he watched it, but covered my face. I was not ok with this and made sure he knew about it. For a while he was just like "well i like porn, so deal with it"! I considered ending it, but he apologized for doing all of that stuff, so i didnt. I bought a brand new laptop a few months ago, and told him not to look up anything dirty on my laptop because it was strictly for school, expensive, and i wanted to keep it clean. Well, recently I was searching for something on google, and a girls name popped up in my search history. After checking my "deleted temp file" I found that he has been looking up naked girls, and dirty movies on my laptop. When I confronted him about it, he denied it, and said i was trying to act like his mother. Is it wrong for me to want the people who may use my laptop to respect what i ask them to not do on it?? Especially when I'm the one that paid for it??
January 17, 2011 - 2:43pmThis Comment
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