I've been in this situation a couple of times. The answer is more simple than any woman would want to admit because we seriously do not think like men. Men have to be physically attracted to their mate. If they are not, then they are not happy. The simple fix is, go to the gym, work out 5 times a week with tons of cardio and some resistance training, reduce your calories and loose some inches and weight. You will know when you have lost enough because things will return to the way that they used to be for him. The problem will then be with you. You will then realize that a mans love is based on superficial looks to some degree. They can't help it because it is an inborn mating thing. Looking for the healthiest female to reproduce with who has the best hip to waist ration etc. Sorry sweety...it's just a biological fact. You are the same person when you way 230 something as you would be weighing 130 something but to a man, they just have to be attracted. Good luck...
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I've been in this situation a couple of times. The answer is more simple than any woman would want to admit because we seriously do not think like men. Men have to be physically attracted to their mate. If they are not, then they are not happy. The simple fix is, go to the gym, work out 5 times a week with tons of cardio and some resistance training, reduce your calories and loose some inches and weight. You will know when you have lost enough because things will return to the way that they used to be for him. The problem will then be with you. You will then realize that a mans love is based on superficial looks to some degree. They can't help it because it is an inborn mating thing. Looking for the healthiest female to reproduce with who has the best hip to waist ration etc. Sorry sweety...it's just a biological fact. You are the same person when you way 230 something as you would be weighing 130 something but to a man, they just have to be attracted. Good luck...
June 7, 2012 - 12:50amThis Comment
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