There is one person at a time on this site answering questions for free, and we say we'll respond within 24 hours. I know you are anxious but we can only answer as fast as we can.
The odds of you becoming pregnant this way are next to nothing. To become pregnant, sperm has to travel up your vagina and meet an egg which then needs to implant in your uterus. It sounds like no sperm went anywhere due to a couple of layers of clothing. We have had questions similar to yours before, and reading the discussion may be helpful to you: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/dry-sex.
That being said, since you are near becoming sexually active, I highly recommend visiting a health care provider or your nearest Planned Parenthood for sexual education, information, and to decide on a form of birth control. These situations become more and more difficult, as hormones and our natural drive as humans to have sex can sometimes eclipse our rational plans to abstain or not get pregnant. If you have birth control all set, you will not again be in the position of fear that you are right now.
Decide what you want after you get some education, and take control of your sex life, whether that means abstinence or birth control. It is your life, you should be in control of it. If you go to the Planned Parenthood website, you can put your location in and it will show you the nearest clinic: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/.
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Hi Anonymous
There is one person at a time on this site answering questions for free, and we say we'll respond within 24 hours. I know you are anxious but we can only answer as fast as we can.
The odds of you becoming pregnant this way are next to nothing. To become pregnant, sperm has to travel up your vagina and meet an egg which then needs to implant in your uterus. It sounds like no sperm went anywhere due to a couple of layers of clothing. We have had questions similar to yours before, and reading the discussion may be helpful to you: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/dry-sex.
That being said, since you are near becoming sexually active, I highly recommend visiting a health care provider or your nearest Planned Parenthood for sexual education, information, and to decide on a form of birth control. These situations become more and more difficult, as hormones and our natural drive as humans to have sex can sometimes eclipse our rational plans to abstain or not get pregnant. If you have birth control all set, you will not again be in the position of fear that you are right now.
Decide what you want after you get some education, and take control of your sex life, whether that means abstinence or birth control. It is your life, you should be in control of it. If you go to the Planned Parenthood website, you can put your location in and it will show you the nearest clinic: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/.
Good luck.
June 19, 2010 - 9:17amThis Comment
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