Oh,about pills.There are no Over the counter pills that can specificly decrease his libido.I would NOT believe him.No man would ever do that,unless the doctor told him he would die if he was to have sex.He needs to go!That is your house.You will have your check.I am not saying it will be a walk in the park,because I do believe you love him and really want things to work,but how long has these things been going on?!I do know what you are going through!My X-husband was emotionally,psychology abusive.Then He stopped sex with me.Next thing you know,I caught him in my house ON CHRISTMAS DAY 08 with another girl,some chick he worked with!I knew something was wrong with his behavior,I did hear rumors and I sure got my proof.P.S.I scared the hell out of them,all I did was say HI!,walk by,grabbed my camera and took pictures!IT was incredibaly funny.I don't want something like that to happen to you.It was easy for me,because I didn't really love him anymore.Do what is best for you!Make 2 lists:1 for all the good things he does and what he brings to the relationship and the 2nd for what he does,bad,wrong,should be doing and adding to the relationship.If the Bad out numbers the Good.You know what you need to do.Wish you all the best.
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Oh,about pills.There are no Over the counter pills that can specificly decrease his libido.I would NOT believe him.No man would ever do that,unless the doctor told him he would die if he was to have sex.He needs to go!That is your house.You will have your check.I am not saying it will be a walk in the park,because I do believe you love him and really want things to work,but how long has these things been going on?!I do know what you are going through!My X-husband was emotionally,psychology abusive.Then He stopped sex with me.Next thing you know,I caught him in my house ON CHRISTMAS DAY 08 with another girl,some chick he worked with!I knew something was wrong with his behavior,I did hear rumors and I sure got my proof.P.S.I scared the hell out of them,all I did was say HI!,walk by,grabbed my camera and took pictures!IT was incredibaly funny.I don't want something like that to happen to you.It was easy for me,because I didn't really love him anymore.Do what is best for you!Make 2 lists:1 for all the good things he does and what he brings to the relationship and the 2nd for what he does,bad,wrong,should be doing and adding to the relationship.If the Bad out numbers the Good.You know what you need to do.Wish you all the best.
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