I'm sorry you are dealing with this because it is frustrating and we can't really give you a definitive answer. Masturbating is normal, of course, and young men in particular may masturbate quite often.
How is your relationship otherwise? Are you or your boyfriend stressed? Do you have open communication? Does he have any other issues with intimacy? This could be a health issue, if he really gets exhausted. But saying he can only perform once a day and stopping in the middle of sex really kind of sounds like something else.
Does he lose his erection when he stops? Or does he just say he wants to stop? It almost sounds like there is something else going on with him related to an intimacy issue or sexual issue that is emotional in nature rather than a medical problem. What does he say when you talk about it?
If you are comfortable sharing a little more information, perhaps we can point you in the right direction. In the meantime, we get a lot of sex questions here, and maybe reading the discussions will help you: https://www.empowher.com/relationships-family/sex-relationships and https://www.empowher.com/condition/sexual-well-being.
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Hi Lucky Pea
I'm sorry you are dealing with this because it is frustrating and we can't really give you a definitive answer. Masturbating is normal, of course, and young men in particular may masturbate quite often.
How is your relationship otherwise? Are you or your boyfriend stressed? Do you have open communication? Does he have any other issues with intimacy? This could be a health issue, if he really gets exhausted. But saying he can only perform once a day and stopping in the middle of sex really kind of sounds like something else.
Does he lose his erection when he stops? Or does he just say he wants to stop? It almost sounds like there is something else going on with him related to an intimacy issue or sexual issue that is emotional in nature rather than a medical problem. What does he say when you talk about it?
If you are comfortable sharing a little more information, perhaps we can point you in the right direction. In the meantime, we get a lot of sex questions here, and maybe reading the discussions will help you: https://www.empowher.com/relationships-family/sex-relationships and https://www.empowher.com/condition/sexual-well-being.
Thank you for writing.
June 22, 2010 - 6:49amThis Comment
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