It sounds like this is more than a health problem, especially given that you know he has a habit of masturbating AND that he is in the prime of his life. (Link to commercial site removed by moderator.) You deserve a better love life than what he's providing. I KNOW how tough this can be, I'm going through it right now with my boyfriend. It's hard to keep my self-esteem in tact when I know that I wasn't his fantasy, I wasn't his escape, that other women (on a computer) were in charge of his "love life." I don't know if that's how you feel, but if you do, you should do everything you can to protect and care for yourself. It's been tough to get through this, but because of my boyfriend's WILLINGNESS to change, his WILLINGNESS to see how much this affects me, we've been able to work through it. Our whole relationship is different now, but not because of a program. First he had to be willing to change, to see his sex life in a completely different way, and it took a lot of time to even get to that point. I wish you the best, I wish you strength, and I hope you are able to, above all else, take care of yourself and stand up for YOUR needs.
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It sounds like this is more than a health problem, especially given that you know he has a habit of masturbating AND that he is in the prime of his life. (Link to commercial site removed by moderator.) You deserve a better love life than what he's providing. I KNOW how tough this can be, I'm going through it right now with my boyfriend. It's hard to keep my self-esteem in tact when I know that I wasn't his fantasy, I wasn't his escape, that other women (on a computer) were in charge of his "love life." I don't know if that's how you feel, but if you do, you should do everything you can to protect and care for yourself. It's been tough to get through this, but because of my boyfriend's WILLINGNESS to change, his WILLINGNESS to see how much this affects me, we've been able to work through it. Our whole relationship is different now, but not because of a program. First he had to be willing to change, to see his sex life in a completely different way, and it took a lot of time to even get to that point. I wish you the best, I wish you strength, and I hope you are able to, above all else, take care of yourself and stand up for YOUR needs.
June 23, 2010 - 9:37amThis Comment
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