I'm 34 and my boyfriend is 37. We haven't had sex in a month and it is really getting to me. I know that he is on online dating sites and even goes and meets the women sometimes in public places. I think he has only cheated on me once. I'm not for certain tho. He never wants to talk about it. He always says it's him not me and that I'm being selfish if that's all I think about. We don't kiss anymore. He has always slept with all his clothes on. I figured it was a habit. I am really starting to think he's not attracted to me. My weight hasn't changed or anything like that. We have been struggling with money but we have always done that too. I'm at a lost for words. Please help.