I'm sorry this is a rough time for the two of you. You didn't mention, did your boyfriend get another job? How is he doing, work-wise?
Has he changed in other ways as well? I am wondering if he went through or is going through a depression after he quit his job. Did he lose interest in other things that used to make him happy?
There are a lot of things that could be going on here. Depression is just one of them (it can kill the libido). He could be very stressed. He could be being dishonest with you about whether he's seeing someone else. He could be using internet porn. Or he could have a medical issue, like low testosterone levels. (Though in some of those, even with a low libido I'm not sure why he wouldn't want to even kiss or hug you.)
Did anything else change in the last few months? Medication, living arrangements, family stress?
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Randi,
I'm sorry this is a rough time for the two of you. You didn't mention, did your boyfriend get another job? How is he doing, work-wise?
Has he changed in other ways as well? I am wondering if he went through or is going through a depression after he quit his job. Did he lose interest in other things that used to make him happy?
There are a lot of things that could be going on here. Depression is just one of them (it can kill the libido). He could be very stressed. He could be being dishonest with you about whether he's seeing someone else. He could be using internet porn. Or he could have a medical issue, like low testosterone levels. (Though in some of those, even with a low libido I'm not sure why he wouldn't want to even kiss or hug you.)
Did anything else change in the last few months? Medication, living arrangements, family stress?
June 24, 2010 - 8:32amThis Comment
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