Hi I'm nicole I'm 20 and I have been married for 2 years! My husband and I had a misscarrage almosted two years ago when we had first got together (although I didn't know I was pregnant your right about one thing it was pain full and I never bleed so much in my life) we were going through a very stressfull time, and ever since we felt that lose we have been trying to conceive. See when my period was late I didn't think anything of it or even think I was pregnant I just thought the late period was due to the stress, come to find out after waking up in a lot of my own blood and having horable back pains stomach pains and ect. Even a few days before the bleeding and the pass of my child to be, I indeed was pregnant and sadly enough I lost it. So we decided we wanted to have a baby but at the same time we didn't want to feel that pain again if something were to go wrong so I wouldn't say at that point we were really trying we were basicly just like well if it happens it happens and we will be happy but we weren't really trying just not trying to prevent it either. So here we are 2years later and acctually trying now and in febuary I thought I was pregnant my period wasn't coming... it finnally came late on the 27th and was very light and only lasted a few days then two days after it stopped I had some brown spotting so I took 2 tests and both were negitive I started having cravings sore tender breasts mood swings and a lot of gas lol these sympthoms proceeded for almost 3 weeks. Since the tests were negitive I felt it was too soon so I was waiting till ti0his month to see if my period came... here's where it gets weird and confussed me, my period didn't come so on the 29th I made an appointment with the OBGYN (she was very rude and nasty to me becuz I was so young and wanted to get pregnant although its not up to her its my body and my life not hers) so she gave me the stick test at her office and told me it was negitive so I told her my sympothoms and asked her if I'm not pregnant why am I having them, she basicly said that happens before a period comes... but I know my body and I know it doesn't happen to me I have sore tender breasts before my period but only for a week never for almost 3 weeks. So I asked her what I could do or where I could go to get checked out and find out why I'm not getting pregnant and she didn't want to help (and I'm alittle worried there is something wrong considering I have been trying for 2 years) so she basicly said I'm sure your period will come and if it doesn't come in 3months let me know and ill give u something to bring it down (3months what?). So she pushed me out of her office and I went home... about an hour after the exam (I forgot to mention she gave me a pap smear and a pelvic exam) I got home and went to the bathroom and I was bleeding light bright red blood (when I had been taking the urin sample for them in the doctors office when I wiped I had a pink discharge) I put on a pantie liner and it just kept getting heavier and heavier to I had to put in a tampon I'm not in pain like when I had my misscarrage 2 years ago but alittle lower back pain but this morrning I woke up and went to the bathroom to change my tampon and when I wiped there were a lot of blood clots (which hasn't happened since my misscarrage) it scared me what does this mean? Someone give me advice please. I don't want to go to the doctor till I find a new one because I didn't like how rude and nasty she was to me just because of my age! I wasreading there posts and mena you really helped christaina get through what she was going through and seemed to know what you are talking about I was wondering if you could help! Thank u for listening and sorry its so long but I figured ecxplaining everything would help you better determin what's happening to me!
Thanks again
A very worried and confussed nicole
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Hi I'm nicole I'm 20 and I have been married for 2 years! My husband and I had a misscarrage almosted two years ago when we had first got together (although I didn't know I was pregnant your right about one thing it was pain full and I never bleed so much in my life) we were going through a very stressfull time, and ever since we felt that lose we have been trying to conceive. See when my period was late I didn't think anything of it or even think I was pregnant I just thought the late period was due to the stress, come to find out after waking up in a lot of my own blood and having horable back pains stomach pains and ect. Even a few days before the bleeding and the pass of my child to be, I indeed was pregnant and sadly enough I lost it. So we decided we wanted to have a baby but at the same time we didn't want to feel that pain again if something were to go wrong so I wouldn't say at that point we were really trying we were basicly just like well if it happens it happens and we will be happy but we weren't really trying just not trying to prevent it either. So here we are 2years later and acctually trying now and in febuary I thought I was pregnant my period wasn't coming... it finnally came late on the 27th and was very light and only lasted a few days then two days after it stopped I had some brown spotting so I took 2 tests and both were negitive I started having cravings sore tender breasts mood swings and a lot of gas lol these sympthoms proceeded for almost 3 weeks. Since the tests were negitive I felt it was too soon so I was waiting till ti0his month to see if my period came... here's where it gets weird and confussed me, my period didn't come so on the 29th I made an appointment with the OBGYN (she was very rude and nasty to me becuz I was so young and wanted to get pregnant although its not up to her its my body and my life not hers) so she gave me the stick test at her office and told me it was negitive so I told her my sympothoms and asked her if I'm not pregnant why am I having them, she basicly said that happens before a period comes... but I know my body and I know it doesn't happen to me I have sore tender breasts before my period but only for a week never for almost 3 weeks. So I asked her what I could do or where I could go to get checked out and find out why I'm not getting pregnant and she didn't want to help (and I'm alittle worried there is something wrong considering I have been trying for 2 years) so she basicly said I'm sure your period will come and if it doesn't come in 3months let me know and ill give u something to bring it down (3months what?). So she pushed me out of her office and I went home... about an hour after the exam (I forgot to mention she gave me a pap smear and a pelvic exam) I got home and went to the bathroom and I was bleeding light bright red blood (when I had been taking the urin sample for them in the doctors office when I wiped I had a pink discharge) I put on a pantie liner and it just kept getting heavier and heavier to I had to put in a tampon I'm not in pain like when I had my misscarrage 2 years ago but alittle lower back pain but this morrning I woke up and went to the bathroom to change my tampon and when I wiped there were a lot of blood clots (which hasn't happened since my misscarrage) it scared me what does this mean? Someone give me advice please. I don't want to go to the doctor till I find a new one because I didn't like how rude and nasty she was to me just because of my age! I wasreading there posts and mena you really helped christaina get through what she was going through and seemed to know what you are talking about I was wondering if you could help! Thank u for listening and sorry its so long but I figured ecxplaining everything would help you better determin what's happening to me!
March 31, 2012 - 1:03pmThanks again
A very worried and confussed nicole
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