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This man is abusing you mentally. If he acted this way towards his first wife, then thats probably why she cheated on him (not an excuse for anyone to do this, but I could see it happening). Do not let his need for perfectionism make you feel anything less than who you are. He is looking a perfect porn bodies and living in a fantasy. You work on building your self esteem and then you should consider leaving him because all he is going to do is play mental games with you until you feel less than he does. There are always two sides to a story and his ex wife has a story too, remember that.

But by the few things you do say in the beginning of this letter, I urge you to do some research about mental abuse. So what about stretch marks- I have them too. But if any man would dare to make me feel bad about things beyond my control, then he would feel the door slamming behind him as I am walking away from all of his mental games. Listen to your friends views about you, not his distorted views. I have been mentally abused and it makes you feel horrible, but research what you can about it and get away from it. I wish you luck.