Thanks for your comments, I appreciate it. Since I posted my original post I have initiated sex with him 3 times and he has been more than happy to do it. I just went along with a friend's advice of "powering through" and seeing if regular sex would stimulate something in him. Now I just think that he is lazy and isnt into pleasing me and I dont know where that leaves me again. He isnt very good at foreplay and maybe he has picked up that I havent enjoyed it and that has knocked his confidence in making a move. I have told him what I like and how to do it and have had "lessons" where he learns what to do..... But to no avail. banging head against brick wall over here lol.
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Thanks for your comments, I appreciate it. Since I posted my original post I have initiated sex with him 3 times and he has been more than happy to do it. I just went along with a friend's advice of "powering through" and seeing if regular sex would stimulate something in him. Now I just think that he is lazy and isnt into pleasing me and I dont know where that leaves me again. He isnt very good at foreplay and maybe he has picked up that I havent enjoyed it and that has knocked his confidence in making a move. I have told him what I like and how to do it and have had "lessons" where he learns what to do..... But to no avail. banging head against brick wall over here lol.
July 11, 2010 - 1:45pmThis Comment
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