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Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Don't blame yourself. There is something deep down that is stopping you. A voice, perhaps, that is warning you. You sound pretty serious about your relationship with him, so let's take a look at the future. A typical scenario with high functioning autism....He acts like Mr. Right up until you get home from the honeymoon. Then, you start to notice the change. His mission has been accomplished (wife), and he can go back to just being himself, now. It seems like he ignores you. It seems like he just drops the bucket. But actually, he might just be relaxing and feeling comfortable with his life...However, mind blindness means he will never really know you. He can't really understand your perspective. You will always struggle to try to get him to understand that you have needs in the relationship that aren't being met, and his thoughts will be very self-centered. Relationships are a struggle for him, and they will also be that way for you if you marry a high-functioning autistic man. Just saying, that maybe there is a reason, a voice deep down that might be warning you.