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Hi
I am 50 and have met a guy same age as me with a good job and normal like!
Within 6 months in the relationship he changed and said I am now only his friend as we are not compatible
I am still with him 2 years onwards but he is checking website
And goes with friends in pub to look for a girlfriend!
It is emotionally nerve racking to love someone who does not know how to love back. Sex is also a battle. On n off.
He feels guilty. As I am now not the woman he loves.
So will have sex with the woman he will find and love.
Yet for me, he has always loved me
He has moved earth n sky to help me!
Everything he has done for me, you can only do if you love someone.
Yet he says he don't love me.

But once he meets someone new, he will start neglecting you
And start the same pattern with the other person.
He has already done it while being with me
Now he is onto a second girl, trying same again
The first one left him after few months.
It's a constant battle.
At my age, I have decided to move out and move on and just be friends.

There is more to life than a constant battle to be with a man who have no contro of his own feeling.
He does not know his condition
When I try to explain, he brush me off!

Sad and heartbreaking for me, yet can meet someone new and normal.
Sad and devastating for him as he will spend the rest of his life doing what he knows best, Running away!