when we first married my a/s husband was very dominant.if he can get his own way he will.i think he chose carefuly.he always went out with girls far younger than himself.think he learnt that if he went out with some one his age,they soon sussed he was different.sexualy inexperianced,bossy childlike.
so he found me,16 yr old virgin.shy and insecure.i suppose i accepted it because i had a dominant mother,so not unusual to have one dominant partner in marriage.but as the expert said here all a/s people are so different,my a/s brother in law and my younger daughter[both a/s]are very passive.hubby,his twin and older daughter[all a/s] are all very dominant.wide spectrum.but we do not have to stay in marriageif we do not want to[well unless arranged]its our choice.once you have diagnosis.work with it or leave.my marriage vows meant a lot to me.also got a/s kids,so cant divorce them.
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when we first married my a/s husband was very dominant.if he can get his own way he will.i think he chose carefuly.he always went out with girls far younger than himself.think he learnt that if he went out with some one his age,they soon sussed he was different.sexualy inexperianced,bossy childlike.
November 13, 2010 - 2:55pmso he found me,16 yr old virgin.shy and insecure.i suppose i accepted it because i had a dominant mother,so not unusual to have one dominant partner in marriage.but as the expert said here all a/s people are so different,my a/s brother in law and my younger daughter[both a/s]are very passive.hubby,his twin and older daughter[all a/s] are all very dominant.wide spectrum.but we do not have to stay in marriageif we do not want to[well unless arranged]its our choice.once you have diagnosis.work with it or leave.my marriage vows meant a lot to me.also got a/s kids,so cant divorce them.
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