Congrats for having the strength to recognize a problem and the strength to do something about it. It's not easy, I know. Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship. It's up to you to decide if it's a deal breaker or not. If you're wanting more activity, either you need to take it upon yourself to incite that (ex., view porn with him? try lingerie?), or have the gumption to walk away and search for a man that's more "your style" in that regard. If it doesn't work out, don't worry, you will gain more time to figure out what's important to you in a relationship and what you need to be happy beyond sex. There is no greedy in that. You deserve to be comfortable and happy with your mate in every sense.
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Congrats for having the strength to recognize a problem and the strength to do something about it. It's not easy, I know. Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship. It's up to you to decide if it's a deal breaker or not. If you're wanting more activity, either you need to take it upon yourself to incite that (ex., view porn with him? try lingerie?), or have the gumption to walk away and search for a man that's more "your style" in that regard. If it doesn't work out, don't worry, you will gain more time to figure out what's important to you in a relationship and what you need to be happy beyond sex. There is no greedy in that. You deserve to be comfortable and happy with your mate in every sense.
July 19, 2010 - 10:25amThis Comment
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