Beyond the nude photos of a previous girlfriend/co-worker/love-interest (whatever the title), this sentence of yours was most telling:
"...he said it was annoying that i keep wanting to spent time with him".
You only have control over yourself, and your boyfriend can always accumulate more naked pictures of women. This does not sound like a healthy relationship (far from it!), and I am wondering what type of relationship YOU want? Why do you want to be in a relationship where you have to tip-toe around a person when you have a concern? A mature, mutually-loving relationship would allow for both people to be able to confront the other with concerns or hurt feelings, and expect the other to respond with kindness, empathy and practical solutions.
Secondly, the phrase that I quoted from above that he is annoyed with you that you want to spend time with him. I hope you believe in yourself, and your value, that other people and boyfriends should WANT to spend time WITH YOU, and not complain about it. Anyone who complains about spending time with you can keep on complaining, as you spend your precious time and self with other people who value you.
If you want to move away, I am wondering if you are in high school, and are feeling trapped by this boy?
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Can you tell us how old you are?
Beyond the nude photos of a previous girlfriend/co-worker/love-interest (whatever the title), this sentence of yours was most telling:
"...he said it was annoying that i keep wanting to spent time with him".
You only have control over yourself, and your boyfriend can always accumulate more naked pictures of women. This does not sound like a healthy relationship (far from it!), and I am wondering what type of relationship YOU want? Why do you want to be in a relationship where you have to tip-toe around a person when you have a concern? A mature, mutually-loving relationship would allow for both people to be able to confront the other with concerns or hurt feelings, and expect the other to respond with kindness, empathy and practical solutions.
Secondly, the phrase that I quoted from above that he is annoyed with you that you want to spend time with him. I hope you believe in yourself, and your value, that other people and boyfriends should WANT to spend time WITH YOU, and not complain about it. Anyone who complains about spending time with you can keep on complaining, as you spend your precious time and self with other people who value you.
If you want to move away, I am wondering if you are in high school, and are feeling trapped by this boy?
July 13, 2010 - 2:27pmThis Comment
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