Hi,
Since your last menstrual period was July 2nd, it is too early to take any home pregnancy tests, or know if you are pregnant. It is great that you were able to take Plan B.
I am a little worried about you, since you said you got drunk and "apparently engaged in sexual activities". This does not sound like it was consensual, and if you are drunk, you are not able to give consent. I would like to talk with you about this, so that you can still have fun, but take care of yourself and your body at the same time. Did you have some girlfriends go with you to the party? Do you and your girlfriends have any type of "buddy system" in place, so that none of you are engaging in sexual activities without consent? Your title said "it wasn't my fault"...it makes me very worried that this could happen again. I know the "buddy system" sounds a little silly/dorky, but college students do have a "pact" with each other to "watch their backs"...both men and women.
I hope to hear back from you soon.
Lastly, are you using any type of hormonal contraception (like, the pill), since you mentioned you also have a boyfriend, and I assume you engage in consensual sexual activities with him?
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Hi,
Since your last menstrual period was July 2nd, it is too early to take any home pregnancy tests, or know if you are pregnant. It is great that you were able to take Plan B.
I am a little worried about you, since you said you got drunk and "apparently engaged in sexual activities". This does not sound like it was consensual, and if you are drunk, you are not able to give consent. I would like to talk with you about this, so that you can still have fun, but take care of yourself and your body at the same time. Did you have some girlfriends go with you to the party? Do you and your girlfriends have any type of "buddy system" in place, so that none of you are engaging in sexual activities without consent? Your title said "it wasn't my fault"...it makes me very worried that this could happen again. I know the "buddy system" sounds a little silly/dorky, but college students do have a "pact" with each other to "watch their backs"...both men and women.
I hope to hear back from you soon.
Lastly, are you using any type of hormonal contraception (like, the pill), since you mentioned you also have a boyfriend, and I assume you engage in consensual sexual activities with him?
July 25, 2010 - 12:42pmThis Comment
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