First of all, this has absolutely nothing to do with you or your body. Second, he began the marriage in a lie, and sounds like he is continuing to be deceitful (avoiding important issues by using an excuse of being angry and walking away is deceitful and harmful to a relationship).
He was deceitful in marrying you, while still in a previous relationship. You have not mentioned if you love him, but I am wondering if an annulment is OK as an option, as did you marry him without knowing that he was seeing another woman? He can not legally marry you under false pretenses, correct? (We will have to look up this information to confirm).
If you do love him, and want this to work, he would need to try. He sounds like he refused to try, and is being emotionally abusive. Telling you that you are bothering him, when you are doing his laundry and asking to go out is not "bothering" someone, and he needs to abruptly stop the verbal abuse. I would highly suggest seeking counseling for yourself, as his verbal abuse can intensify.
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I am so sorry!
First of all, this has absolutely nothing to do with you or your body. Second, he began the marriage in a lie, and sounds like he is continuing to be deceitful (avoiding important issues by using an excuse of being angry and walking away is deceitful and harmful to a relationship).
He was deceitful in marrying you, while still in a previous relationship. You have not mentioned if you love him, but I am wondering if an annulment is OK as an option, as did you marry him without knowing that he was seeing another woman? He can not legally marry you under false pretenses, correct? (We will have to look up this information to confirm).
If you do love him, and want this to work, he would need to try. He sounds like he refused to try, and is being emotionally abusive. Telling you that you are bothering him, when you are doing his laundry and asking to go out is not "bothering" someone, and he needs to abruptly stop the verbal abuse. I would highly suggest seeking counseling for yourself, as his verbal abuse can intensify.
Please let us know what we can do to help.
July 29, 2010 - 7:05pmThis Comment
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