Well, I in a long-term relationship, 30 years, and we haven't had sex but three times since I had a hysterectomy. It's really hard to describe myself as married anymore. I feel more like the housekeeper, cook, shopper, and laundry lady. I do all the work of a wife, but because I gained weight I am no longer desirable as a partner. I know times are stressful but this is really hard to take. I feel like I work for him. Worst is, he doesn't even seem to miss sex at all, which either doesn't say much for me or doesn't say much for him. Either way I feel like I'm doing the work but getting none of the rewards.
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Well, I in a long-term relationship, 30 years, and we haven't had sex but three times since I had a hysterectomy. It's really hard to describe myself as married anymore. I feel more like the housekeeper, cook, shopper, and laundry lady. I do all the work of a wife, but because I gained weight I am no longer desirable as a partner. I know times are stressful but this is really hard to take. I feel like I work for him. Worst is, he doesn't even seem to miss sex at all, which either doesn't say much for me or doesn't say much for him. Either way I feel like I'm doing the work but getting none of the rewards.
August 10, 2010 - 7:31amThis Comment
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