i have been living with a man for the past two years. At first, I felt the relationship was all about sex. We would literally have intercourse daily. We have had our problems, he did go out with another woman when we were in the dating phase, I caught him on a dating website 2 months after he moved in, found out that he's bisexual and has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months, we average sex once a month, but it appears like its a chore for him. He would much rather masterbate to porn than touch me. I know he watches it on a daily basis because I can see it in his internet history. He says his lack of interest is because of his hypertension, he got meds..... No change, he got off the meds...... Nothing. I gained 30 pounds last year dealing with all the stress and turning to food for a crutch. He says that he is still attractive to me but I honestly don't think he has ever been attracted to me. He never tells me and he's always looking at other women. He's unemployed right now and living rent free. Although he gave me a ring and asked me to marry him, I think I've always just been his free ride. I try to talk to him about all this but he just brushed it off and changes
The subject. It seems he is still hung up on his ex wife because their relationship seems a little too friendly. I don't if I'm crazy and I'm making things worse in my head then what they seems. I'm lonely and we feel like roommates. I love him but I feel like there has to be something better out there.
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i have been living with a man for the past two years. At first, I felt the relationship was all about sex. We would literally have intercourse daily. We have had our problems, he did go out with another woman when we were in the dating phase, I caught him on a dating website 2 months after he moved in, found out that he's bisexual and has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months, we average sex once a month, but it appears like its a chore for him. He would much rather masterbate to porn than touch me. I know he watches it on a daily basis because I can see it in his internet history. He says his lack of interest is because of his hypertension, he got meds..... No change, he got off the meds...... Nothing. I gained 30 pounds last year dealing with all the stress and turning to food for a crutch. He says that he is still attractive to me but I honestly don't think he has ever been attracted to me. He never tells me and he's always looking at other women. He's unemployed right now and living rent free. Although he gave me a ring and asked me to marry him, I think I've always just been his free ride. I try to talk to him about all this but he just brushed it off and changes
May 15, 2016 - 1:33pmThe subject. It seems he is still hung up on his ex wife because their relationship seems a little too friendly. I don't if I'm crazy and I'm making things worse in my head then what they seems. I'm lonely and we feel like roommates. I love him but I feel like there has to be something better out there.
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