Hi FlowerChick,
Unfortunately, the only person that could answer that would be your FWB (friend with benefits). He may not feel that he is denying himself from intercourse; it sounds like you two are doing everything sexually EXCEPT intercourse, and he may choose to masturbate alone. I'm curious: does he ejaculate when you two are intimate? That is satisfying, and he may have medical issues (from what you pointed out) that it may be more trouble-than-its-worth to have intercourse. Having a sexually fulfilling sex life is fun in many ways, and if intercourse creates any type of conflict, he may prefer other sexually satisfying behaviors.
He also sounds like he does not want a long-term, committed relationship with you, since you two are proudly FWB, and he may choose to only have intercourse with a woman he is more committed to.
There are so many different possibilities; we could speculate all day, and twenty different people will have twenty different responses.
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Hi FlowerChick,
Unfortunately, the only person that could answer that would be your FWB (friend with benefits). He may not feel that he is denying himself from intercourse; it sounds like you two are doing everything sexually EXCEPT intercourse, and he may choose to masturbate alone. I'm curious: does he ejaculate when you two are intimate? That is satisfying, and he may have medical issues (from what you pointed out) that it may be more trouble-than-its-worth to have intercourse. Having a sexually fulfilling sex life is fun in many ways, and if intercourse creates any type of conflict, he may prefer other sexually satisfying behaviors.
He also sounds like he does not want a long-term, committed relationship with you, since you two are proudly FWB, and he may choose to only have intercourse with a woman he is more committed to.
There are so many different possibilities; we could speculate all day, and twenty different people will have twenty different responses.
Good luck!
September 5, 2010 - 10:15amThis Comment
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