My personal take is that he's pretty selfish . . . also, I kind of cringe at the idea that he "hates condoms," yet expects you to take his bodily fluids into your body, via your mouth . . . kind of scary, I think. Frankly, it sounds like he might have some sexual hang-ups if he can't climax through penetrative sex, and he's got such a one-track mind regarding the oral sex. I know it may sound judgmental, but really, 5 months isn't really enough time to decide whether you want to really settle down with someone, especially if you've got problems like this from the get-go. My take? I'd move on. Better to get out after only 5 months than invest another year or two and find out only then (though I suspect you already know it) that you're sexually incompatible. Sounds like he's got the hangups, but he's trying to make you feel like it's all you. Red flags!
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My personal take is that he's pretty selfish . . . also, I kind of cringe at the idea that he "hates condoms," yet expects you to take his bodily fluids into your body, via your mouth . . . kind of scary, I think. Frankly, it sounds like he might have some sexual hang-ups if he can't climax through penetrative sex, and he's got such a one-track mind regarding the oral sex. I know it may sound judgmental, but really, 5 months isn't really enough time to decide whether you want to really settle down with someone, especially if you've got problems like this from the get-go. My take? I'd move on. Better to get out after only 5 months than invest another year or two and find out only then (though I suspect you already know it) that you're sexually incompatible. Sounds like he's got the hangups, but he's trying to make you feel like it's all you. Red flags!
September 6, 2010 - 1:19amThis Comment
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