Hello I didn't realize how many women are or have experienced the same issue that I am currently experiencing. I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years with my man. After 6 months into the relationship we moved in together. Our sex life was pretty good at the beginning but slowly began to change after I moved in. It's been 4 months since we've had sex. Crazy enough, 4 months ago I found out he cheated on me, but we were intimate a couple of weeks after that, but no more since then. He works nights and I work and attend school full time. We sleep in the same bed, he kisses me before he leaves the house and when he returns. He hugs me often and tells me he loves me but when I initiate sex or even ask for sex he says "I'm tired". I'm 34 and he's 29. Somethings wrong, but I don't know what it is. He pays bills, helps me with my daughter in college and even gives me money when ever I ask and just because. One thing I've noticed is that he watches porn dvd's on a regular basis. He never does it when I'm home but he always forget to take the movie out of the dvd. I feel that he's not attracted to me. I figured on his days off maybe I will try again. Tonight was one of his days off and I tried again, no such luck.
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Hello I didn't realize how many women are or have experienced the same issue that I am currently experiencing. I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years with my man. After 6 months into the relationship we moved in together. Our sex life was pretty good at the beginning but slowly began to change after I moved in. It's been 4 months since we've had sex. Crazy enough, 4 months ago I found out he cheated on me, but we were intimate a couple of weeks after that, but no more since then. He works nights and I work and attend school full time. We sleep in the same bed, he kisses me before he leaves the house and when he returns. He hugs me often and tells me he loves me but when I initiate sex or even ask for sex he says "I'm tired". I'm 34 and he's 29. Somethings wrong, but I don't know what it is. He pays bills, helps me with my daughter in college and even gives me money when ever I ask and just because. One thing I've noticed is that he watches porn dvd's on a regular basis. He never does it when I'm home but he always forget to take the movie out of the dvd. I feel that he's not attracted to me. I figured on his days off maybe I will try again. Tonight was one of his days off and I tried again, no such luck.
November 30, 2010 - 7:58pmThis Comment
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