Hey anonymous, I have read your predicament that you are in, but if it's any reassurance u are not alone for sure. I for one know how you feel with regards to the masturbation. I honestly believe it stems from an issue that has affected us from the past. I am currently going through Conselling for this. It's only something I've just started and I am on my third session. I am able to say it's very difficult to open up about your thoughts and feelings to a complete stranger, but I do believe if you don't get to the root of the problem, whether you're with your husband or another man, this way of thinking and feeling will continue throughout any relationship. I for one thought it was something I was going to have to deal with for the rest of my life knowing that I couldn't trust anyone once my back was turned. I'm new to this site and not sure how it works, but if there is a way of you being able to contact me one to one, I'd be happy to chat with you about it. I haven't fully written about my experience on here, but I would be happy to share with yourself. Also, I am aware that in one of your post you mentioned that you were now having therapy. I hope it's helping and I'd be happy to hear how it's going. I wish you all the best, but remember u r not alone.
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Hey anonymous, I have read your predicament that you are in, but if it's any reassurance u are not alone for sure. I for one know how you feel with regards to the masturbation. I honestly believe it stems from an issue that has affected us from the past. I am currently going through Conselling for this. It's only something I've just started and I am on my third session. I am able to say it's very difficult to open up about your thoughts and feelings to a complete stranger, but I do believe if you don't get to the root of the problem, whether you're with your husband or another man, this way of thinking and feeling will continue throughout any relationship. I for one thought it was something I was going to have to deal with for the rest of my life knowing that I couldn't trust anyone once my back was turned. I'm new to this site and not sure how it works, but if there is a way of you being able to contact me one to one, I'd be happy to chat with you about it. I haven't fully written about my experience on here, but I would be happy to share with yourself. Also, I am aware that in one of your post you mentioned that you were now having therapy. I hope it's helping and I'd be happy to hear how it's going. I wish you all the best, but remember u r not alone.
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