I feel ya! I’m in the same boat but w my bf of a little over a year & he’s constantly denying me...doesn’t like morning sex cuz he has to wake up for 5 minutes...sometimes has to shower first OR he’s going out later and doesn’t want to have to shower so he denies me -__- I also have had many discussions w him and legit only asked that he NOT JERK OFF WHEN IM HOME....and he’s “mr. why would I do that if you’re here?” Yet I’m always HERE and he never comes on to me!
I’m super open and want him to just be honest that he’s been doing it and for him to know It’s not AT ALL about the jerking off...it’s that you 1. Look me in my eyes & tell me to believe you would never do it 2. I CAN HEAR YOU OVER YOUR PHONE BLASTING VIDEOS W PORNOS IN THE BACKGROUND 3. It makes it seem sketchy 4. It makes me feel unwanted or selfish of how much you love yourself more than me (I am aware self love is needed, believe me!) but you should have this genuine want to please your partner.
Hope this helped see how common it is, or just helps you see it from a “crazy” girls perspective!
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I feel ya! I’m in the same boat but w my bf of a little over a year & he’s constantly denying me...doesn’t like morning sex cuz he has to wake up for 5 minutes...sometimes has to shower first OR he’s going out later and doesn’t want to have to shower so he denies me -__- I also have had many discussions w him and legit only asked that he NOT JERK OFF WHEN IM HOME....and he’s “mr. why would I do that if you’re here?” Yet I’m always HERE and he never comes on to me!
I’m super open and want him to just be honest that he’s been doing it and for him to know It’s not AT ALL about the jerking off...it’s that you 1. Look me in my eyes & tell me to believe you would never do it 2. I CAN HEAR YOU OVER YOUR PHONE BLASTING VIDEOS W PORNOS IN THE BACKGROUND 3. It makes it seem sketchy 4. It makes me feel unwanted or selfish of how much you love yourself more than me (I am aware self love is needed, believe me!) but you should have this genuine want to please your partner.
Hope this helped see how common it is, or just helps you see it from a “crazy” girls perspective!
January 28, 2019 - 5:52pmThis Comment
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