Hi mindy102,
Thank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER.
Congrats!! Sounds like it has been a long time since you and your husband have connected. Is that the only reason for your concern? I hope so.
I would say from personal experience that hotels have a way of lowering your inhibitions, and allowing you to relax more. Bring yourself, beautiful you, that is all your husband will need. Sure, you could go to the store and get some new lingerie, or a new slinky dress to wear out to dinner, but I bet most husbands will say that alone time with you is enough. Any extra effort on your or your husband's part will be a bonus and just ensure that much more of a memorable time.
When I go away alone with my husband, I try to not bring my everyday PJs. You also can bring a scarf (use your imagination). Maybe pick up a Glamor or Cosmopolitan magazine that usually has ideas for ways to spice things up. You can even start now by starting to tease your husband, tell him how much you're looking forward to your "alone time", etc. Just throwing those things out there. Beware, the heat of a hot tub and alcohol can be a bad mix.
Here also is an additional resource (check the comment from Alison Beaver):
https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/need-spice-my-sex-life-help
Good luck, and hope the time away is everything you are dreaming of.
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Hi mindy102,
September 30, 2010 - 12:49pmThank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER.
Congrats!! Sounds like it has been a long time since you and your husband have connected. Is that the only reason for your concern? I hope so.
I would say from personal experience that hotels have a way of lowering your inhibitions, and allowing you to relax more. Bring yourself, beautiful you, that is all your husband will need. Sure, you could go to the store and get some new lingerie, or a new slinky dress to wear out to dinner, but I bet most husbands will say that alone time with you is enough. Any extra effort on your or your husband's part will be a bonus and just ensure that much more of a memorable time.
When I go away alone with my husband, I try to not bring my everyday PJs. You also can bring a scarf (use your imagination). Maybe pick up a Glamor or Cosmopolitan magazine that usually has ideas for ways to spice things up. You can even start now by starting to tease your husband, tell him how much you're looking forward to your "alone time", etc. Just throwing those things out there. Beware, the heat of a hot tub and alcohol can be a bad mix.
Here also is an additional resource (check the comment from Alison Beaver):
https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/need-spice-my-sex-life-help
Good luck, and hope the time away is everything you are dreaming of.
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