Hi,
I agree with everything that Cary said. If you continue this behavior you will have a terrible relationship, and quite possibly lose your girlfriend. Your girlfriend is a different person from your past experiences, it's not fair to punish her for what others have done. I understand you have a heightened trust issue. You can work on it by reading self-help books, or undergoing counseling. You have everything to gain by learning new behaviors.
Good luck and let us know how you are doing, or if you need further guidance.
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Hi,
October 6, 2010 - 12:07pmI agree with everything that Cary said. If you continue this behavior you will have a terrible relationship, and quite possibly lose your girlfriend. Your girlfriend is a different person from your past experiences, it's not fair to punish her for what others have done. I understand you have a heightened trust issue. You can work on it by reading self-help books, or undergoing counseling. You have everything to gain by learning new behaviors.
Good luck and let us know how you are doing, or if you need further guidance.
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