Hi Sydney95,
Thank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER. What you describe in your relationship doesn't sound very healthy. Why do you want to make fights with him? Are you bored with the relationship? I don't think it's good to want to hurt or make sad someone you claim to love. Have you told this to a doctor? It may be helpful to visit with a therapist to try and figure out what in you makes you crave the drama? Until you do that, the pattern potentially could keep repeating. I know you don't want that since you asked the question. Until you figure it out, I think you and your boyfriend are being treated poorly. You deserve to be comfortable and happy in your relationship without the drama. You can get to that place with a little work. Please let us know if you need further direction to find a provider in your area, or how else we can try to help you.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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Hi Sydney95,
October 19, 2010 - 1:04pmThank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER. What you describe in your relationship doesn't sound very healthy. Why do you want to make fights with him? Are you bored with the relationship? I don't think it's good to want to hurt or make sad someone you claim to love. Have you told this to a doctor? It may be helpful to visit with a therapist to try and figure out what in you makes you crave the drama? Until you do that, the pattern potentially could keep repeating. I know you don't want that since you asked the question. Until you figure it out, I think you and your boyfriend are being treated poorly. You deserve to be comfortable and happy in your relationship without the drama. You can get to that place with a little work. Please let us know if you need further direction to find a provider in your area, or how else we can try to help you.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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