I think LAT is a good option. I am currently considering entering into this type of relationship. I am a 49 year old widow. My husband died 12 years ago. I started dating and ultimately started living with a great man. He is raising his 2 daughters age 22 and 15. I however no longer have children at home and have been on my own for the last 10 years. Though I very much love this man and want to spend the rest of my life with him. I do not want to raise children again. I have come to enjoy the advantages of not living with children. I find myself very resentful and angry when his kids invade my space or don't clean up after themselves. I think I have lived alone for too long to now live with others. I learned to be alone without being lonely. I have become set in my ways and living with teenagers feels unfair to them and me.
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I think LAT is a good option. I am currently considering entering into this type of relationship. I am a 49 year old widow. My husband died 12 years ago. I started dating and ultimately started living with a great man. He is raising his 2 daughters age 22 and 15. I however no longer have children at home and have been on my own for the last 10 years. Though I very much love this man and want to spend the rest of my life with him. I do not want to raise children again. I have come to enjoy the advantages of not living with children. I find myself very resentful and angry when his kids invade my space or don't clean up after themselves. I think I have lived alone for too long to now live with others. I learned to be alone without being lonely. I have become set in my ways and living with teenagers feels unfair to them and me.
November 13, 2010 - 3:12pmThis Comment
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