I know exactly what you are going through. You end of constantly questioning everything until it eats at you. Whatever his lies have been in the past are having a major impact on you now. Even if he told you he'd taken the dog for a walk I'm sure it would be rattling through your brain whether he did or not! Your partner lying to you then makes you question yourself which is not a good place to be. Time and talking to each other is the only way to get through it. But you are not going to be able to change him - However you can change yourself and the way that you look at your future together. It's a hard route and worth it if you have something strong. Just don't waste your time and effort if he's not even going to try. I'm going through the same thing - be strong!
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I know exactly what you are going through. You end of constantly questioning everything until it eats at you. Whatever his lies have been in the past are having a major impact on you now. Even if he told you he'd taken the dog for a walk I'm sure it would be rattling through your brain whether he did or not! Your partner lying to you then makes you question yourself which is not a good place to be. Time and talking to each other is the only way to get through it. But you are not going to be able to change him - However you can change yourself and the way that you look at your future together. It's a hard route and worth it if you have something strong. Just don't waste your time and effort if he's not even going to try. I'm going through the same thing - be strong!
November 15, 2010 - 3:56amThis Comment
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