One thing I was not ready for was my second marriage with two more children. I thought things would be the same – nightly sex before marriage when I was living in a different house than hers – but my mental state was different. I can’t explain the reason, but everything changed. Maybe he’s just having problems adjusting or maybe it was the thrill of having sex with someone who wasn’t his wife. Try a change of scenery - go to a bed and breakfast or hotel. That always got me going – we would have sex often on a Fri-Sun trip or we would go to my college’s football games for the weekend and make love many times. Best of luck!