My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years. We had sex about once a week at first as well... after about 1.5 years we started talking about why weren't as sexual as before we got married. Just talking about it opened up our relationship and made us freer with eachother. WE now have sex 4-6 times a week. My husband has told me that he occasionally masturbates in the shower... and had looked at porn for many years. What I have come to terms with is that he needs to respect me (not look at porn) but I need to respect him (understand he has a male sex drive). Masturbation probably has nothing to do with you. Try and put out a bit more... but also hold your lines. A confident woman is a sexy woman.
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My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years. We had sex about once a week at first as well... after about 1.5 years we started talking about why weren't as sexual as before we got married. Just talking about it opened up our relationship and made us freer with eachother. WE now have sex 4-6 times a week. My husband has told me that he occasionally masturbates in the shower... and had looked at porn for many years. What I have come to terms with is that he needs to respect me (not look at porn) but I need to respect him (understand he has a male sex drive). Masturbation probably has nothing to do with you. Try and put out a bit more... but also hold your lines. A confident woman is a sexy woman.
January 3, 2011 - 5:51pmThis Comment
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