Can anyone out there provide some feedback for me?
I recently met a guy, about a month and a half ago. Very unexpectedly. We've been casually spending time together but I wouldnt say on a "dating" level. We don't go out and have dates, I spend most of the time at his place drinking wine, talking for hours and NOT having sex. Now don't get me wrong, things happen. Like really good things. Things that make you question why he doesn't want to have sex with me. Sometimes its so good that you wonder if sex really needed to happen? So its been about 4 situations now that most people in my shoes would think sex would happen. And it never does. I mean moments are so insane that I think wow this guy has some MAJOR self control. And hes smart he knows it can go there anytime. But at the same time, why doesn't he want to have sex with me?
What does it mean when a guy isn't sleeping with you but isn't "dating you" either. Like at some level Im like this is just fun?? Because if it was meaningless fun wouldn't it have happened? I'm just curious about insight if anyone has been here or if any guy has an opinion.