Hi Stephaniek,
Again, I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I definitely think that meeting with a counselor for yourself will be a good thing. No doubt this drought in sex has had an effect on you. I know it is hard to accept that you can't change your husband, and if he's not willing to go see a doctor, or go visit with a counselor, or thinks there's nothing wrong and it's completely normal to go 6.5 mo. without sex, there's not much you can do about it. You have to be true to yourself. I'm glad you sound self-assured enough that even though you love him, you know that you will be ok with or without him. It's possible it may all work out with him, but until you make steps to improve the situation for yourself on your own, I personally don't see things changing for better or worse. A counselor can help you figure out what you need and how to proceed. We also are here to inspire and support you--let us know how we may be able to help.
Good luck, I know it won't be easy no matter what happens.
-Christine
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Hi Stephaniek,
December 20, 2010 - 7:39amAgain, I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I definitely think that meeting with a counselor for yourself will be a good thing. No doubt this drought in sex has had an effect on you. I know it is hard to accept that you can't change your husband, and if he's not willing to go see a doctor, or go visit with a counselor, or thinks there's nothing wrong and it's completely normal to go 6.5 mo. without sex, there's not much you can do about it. You have to be true to yourself. I'm glad you sound self-assured enough that even though you love him, you know that you will be ok with or without him. It's possible it may all work out with him, but until you make steps to improve the situation for yourself on your own, I personally don't see things changing for better or worse. A counselor can help you figure out what you need and how to proceed. We also are here to inspire and support you--let us know how we may be able to help.
Good luck, I know it won't be easy no matter what happens.
-Christine
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