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I have been dealing with this. I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy who I knew loved me and lord knows I still love him, but it has currently been almost a year since I started noticing that he never wanted to have sex. We have discussed it and had conversations about it and I've told him how it makes me feel unloved and unattractive and unwanted. After pointing that out to him he said he was sorry and would like to work on that. Well we have been intimate once in the last 10 months. I have realized after going so long without it I no longer want to. I don't even want to be touched. This man has been my best friend for the last four years and it so hard to think of my life without him, but at this point we are just friends. We ended our relationship yesterday....well I guess I ended it is the right way to say that. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but I have to think about my own health and peace of mind. I have been laying here in bed thinking about everything we did over the last four years and can't help but think I just lost my best friend and it hurts more than I can explain.