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Hi I know its been around a year and a half since you wrote this. I wish you would come back and tell me if you are happy with your decision!! I have been with my best friend for 7 years who never wanted to have sex and no intimacy, never said I love you nothing. But we had a deep connection. However I kept begging for the last 5 years for him to do something and I have given up. With a sad heart and soul and a crushed self esteem and the loss of 7 years of my life I have broken up with him. I feel like I want to die every day. I love him so much.... how can something so horrible happen and no one will ever know.... people will know if someone beats you up... if someone talks down to you if someone belittles you but no one will ever know what is going on in a relationship where there is NO Intimacy no touch no hug no I love you amd now sex!!! But How can I love this man ... we were perfect in every other aspect .... I feel like dying every single day ... please tell me how you feel after leaving him.... I am 38 and lost 7-8 years of my life :(