i also chose to stay.my husband always controled money.,so i have no savings.he has made it clear he will never leave our home.so i would have to go???then would take 3 yrs of seperation before property can be sold.where would i go.refuge????no i am 63 yrs old.my grown kids a/s is worse than my husbands.
so decided to stay,got a/s couple councilling,took controle of my life.had C,B,T THERAPY.
we do share our faith and have a lot of common interests,but its so hard,he says he loves me????i love him,so we stayed in our very odd marriage,but do not think i could start a new life now.i work with autistic adults this gives me some insight and more skills to cope..luckily hubby is hypo active[68]still works 50 hrs a week.so can do my own thing.we get on fine till i want to talk.he missunderstands every thing i say????but funnily enough never gets in arguements at work.and at the end of the day,the grass is not always greener????
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i also chose to stay.my husband always controled money.,so i have no savings.he has made it clear he will never leave our home.so i would have to go???then would take 3 yrs of seperation before property can be sold.where would i go.refuge????no i am 63 yrs old.my grown kids a/s is worse than my husbands.
December 31, 2010 - 6:52pmso decided to stay,got a/s couple councilling,took controle of my life.had C,B,T THERAPY.
we do share our faith and have a lot of common interests,but its so hard,he says he loves me????i love him,so we stayed in our very odd marriage,but do not think i could start a new life now.i work with autistic adults this gives me some insight and more skills to cope..luckily hubby is hypo active[68]still works 50 hrs a week.so can do my own thing.we get on fine till i want to talk.he missunderstands every thing i say????but funnily enough never gets in arguements at work.and at the end of the day,the grass is not always greener????
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