Hi Anonymous,
I would suggest you talk with your husband and ask these questions of him. In a loving and respectful relationship, you should be able to have an adult conversation about this. I'm guessing he won't know what to tell you, but maybe voicing your concerns will make him think about it and help him to realize how it makes you uncomfortable. Is this a passing fancy with him, or do you need counseling? I can't answer that question. Let's see what others in this forum think about it. But my gut tells me that if it makes you uncomfortable, your husband needs to understand that and you two can figure out a solution, whatever that means in the confines of your relationship. You deserve to be comfortable and secure in your relationship, and shouldn't have to condone behavior you find undesirable.
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Hi Anonymous,
December 29, 2010 - 10:11amI would suggest you talk with your husband and ask these questions of him. In a loving and respectful relationship, you should be able to have an adult conversation about this. I'm guessing he won't know what to tell you, but maybe voicing your concerns will make him think about it and help him to realize how it makes you uncomfortable. Is this a passing fancy with him, or do you need counseling? I can't answer that question. Let's see what others in this forum think about it. But my gut tells me that if it makes you uncomfortable, your husband needs to understand that and you two can figure out a solution, whatever that means in the confines of your relationship. You deserve to be comfortable and secure in your relationship, and shouldn't have to condone behavior you find undesirable.
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