Some people find it arousing I suppose but it does not mean that they actual condone the very real and damaging rape. If you set up guidelines and a safe word you both may be able to enjoy the experience because if you consent to a game of non-consent it isn't rape. It's more like letting go and allowing your partner to explore but only as much as you are willing. If he is the kind and gentle man you say he is he will stop the instant you say the safe word you both have agreed upon. If he is not then I suggest you get councelling or get out of the relationship. If he truly wants to rape you then he does not love and respect you. If it is something that you are not even comfortable with as a fantasy game then he should respect you and keep it to his private alone time thoughts.
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Some people find it arousing I suppose but it does not mean that they actual condone the very real and damaging rape. If you set up guidelines and a safe word you both may be able to enjoy the experience because if you consent to a game of non-consent it isn't rape. It's more like letting go and allowing your partner to explore but only as much as you are willing. If he is the kind and gentle man you say he is he will stop the instant you say the safe word you both have agreed upon. If he is not then I suggest you get councelling or get out of the relationship. If he truly wants to rape you then he does not love and respect you. If it is something that you are not even comfortable with as a fantasy game then he should respect you and keep it to his private alone time thoughts.
April 14, 2011 - 7:11pmThis Comment
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