I think you do know what to think, right? Does this sound like a mutually healthy and happy relationship, if one of your friends was describing this story to you?
A relationship without physical affection, whether or not he's cheating on you or has fallen out of love, is just a friendship, right? And, he does not even sound like a great friend if he's just placating your concerns by "trying harder for 2 days" and then going back to his old ways.
And yes, changing all passwords is not a sign of trust. I'm sorry that he is not communicating his true feelings with you; it is frustrating when someone is making their feelings obvious by their actions, yet we are still waiting for them to say the difficult words. It sounds like you may need to be the mature one in this relationship and let him know it's not working for you.
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I think you do know what to think, right? Does this sound like a mutually healthy and happy relationship, if one of your friends was describing this story to you?
A relationship without physical affection, whether or not he's cheating on you or has fallen out of love, is just a friendship, right? And, he does not even sound like a great friend if he's just placating your concerns by "trying harder for 2 days" and then going back to his old ways.
And yes, changing all passwords is not a sign of trust. I'm sorry that he is not communicating his true feelings with you; it is frustrating when someone is making their feelings obvious by their actions, yet we are still waiting for them to say the difficult words. It sounds like you may need to be the mature one in this relationship and let him know it's not working for you.
We wish you the best!
January 11, 2011 - 9:30amThis Comment
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