Me and my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago. Both virgins. My hymen broke I know Cause there was a lot of blood. And of course it was very painful. He couldn't go all the way in and it hurt so badthat we had to stop. I wasn't really sore afterwards but IF bled until the next morning. We tried again yesterday after doing foreplay. When he first went in it didn't really hurt, but after he got halfway in it felt like he was pushing down on a very sensitive spot and the pain was unbearable. He couldn't go in any further Cause it felt like something was blocking the rest of the way. I cried afterwards Cause it hurt so bad and bc couldn't have sex with him. I'm 16 and small framed but I don't think that has anything to do with it. I feel really alone bc I can't talk to my parents about this and none of my friends have or have ever had this problem. I just wanna know what's wrong with me so I can fix it and love the life of a normal 16 yr old girl. I tried feeling around with my finger to see what was blocking it. When I felt back there, Its like theres this lump of semi hard, squishy tissue and Its swollen from yesterday. I aloso felt this cordlike structure in there too. Could the lump of tissue be my hymen. If so, why is it blocking him from going any further and how can I fix it? I tried going around and behind it but I can't get past it. Please tell me what is wrong with me and how I can fix it. :( I'm not gonna stop worrying about it until Its fixed..
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Me and my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago. Both virgins. My hymen broke I know Cause there was a lot of blood. And of course it was very painful. He couldn't go all the way in and it hurt so badthat we had to stop. I wasn't really sore afterwards but IF bled until the next morning. We tried again yesterday after doing foreplay. When he first went in it didn't really hurt, but after he got halfway in it felt like he was pushing down on a very sensitive spot and the pain was unbearable. He couldn't go in any further Cause it felt like something was blocking the rest of the way. I cried afterwards Cause it hurt so bad and bc couldn't have sex with him. I'm 16 and small framed but I don't think that has anything to do with it. I feel really alone bc I can't talk to my parents about this and none of my friends have or have ever had this problem. I just wanna know what's wrong with me so I can fix it and love the life of a normal 16 yr old girl. I tried feeling around with my finger to see what was blocking it. When I felt back there, Its like theres this lump of semi hard, squishy tissue and Its swollen from yesterday. I aloso felt this cordlike structure in there too. Could the lump of tissue be my hymen. If so, why is it blocking him from going any further and how can I fix it? I tried going around and behind it but I can't get past it. Please tell me what is wrong with me and how I can fix it. :( I'm not gonna stop worrying about it until Its fixed..
January 28, 2013 - 5:08pmThis Comment
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