I would suggest for you to read "10 Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
The men that I've been with were complete scum and only wanted sex and I found myself depressed and anxious when things didn't work out between us. Question is: Why???? Why do I want back these men that don't apperciate me for me?
After reading this book, I realized that I had been going about everything wrong. I was so ready to change myself for someone to love me and it doesn't work like that. I wanted their approval so badly and I felt that that was the only way I was going to be happy. I made these men "my life" rather than just living my life with these men.
I've been trying to get to know myself better since then but it's been a journey. When you start getting all those bad feelings, you gotta just stick it through and resist the urge to call these men to "comfort" you or sueduce a man just so you'll have company because you feel lonely. Start doing something that will better yourself. The only way to get higher self esteem is to earn it.
I do hope you find yourself soon rather than later. :)
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I would suggest for you to read "10 Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
The men that I've been with were complete scum and only wanted sex and I found myself depressed and anxious when things didn't work out between us. Question is: Why???? Why do I want back these men that don't apperciate me for me?
After reading this book, I realized that I had been going about everything wrong. I was so ready to change myself for someone to love me and it doesn't work like that. I wanted their approval so badly and I felt that that was the only way I was going to be happy. I made these men "my life" rather than just living my life with these men.
I've been trying to get to know myself better since then but it's been a journey. When you start getting all those bad feelings, you gotta just stick it through and resist the urge to call these men to "comfort" you or sueduce a man just so you'll have company because you feel lonely. Start doing something that will better yourself. The only way to get higher self esteem is to earn it.
I do hope you find yourself soon rather than later. :)
February 18, 2011 - 11:59amThis Comment
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