Hi Payal14,
Thank you for your question and for joining EmpowHER. The key in relationships is communication. You need to be able to talk with your husband about what excites you, and what excites him. You both can experiment together and get to know each other's likes and dislikes. That is the important thing to find happiness for both of you in being intimate.
In regard to birth control, you can ask your doctor about birth control pills. If this is something you would like to do, you doctor can recommend a particular pill to try. You will take it every day of the month. Condoms are good if you don't want to have to take a pill every day, or don't want the hormones in your system. If used correctly, condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. Birth control pills taken as your doctor tells you to take them is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy. It is a personal choice which is right for you.
Here are a couple articles that may interest you: Book Review: 6 Steps To True Intimacy and Sexual Adundance, Which Method of Birth Control Should I Use? Part I, and Part II
Good luck, and let us know if you need more information.
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Hi Payal14,
March 7, 2011 - 9:47amThank you for your question and for joining EmpowHER. The key in relationships is communication. You need to be able to talk with your husband about what excites you, and what excites him. You both can experiment together and get to know each other's likes and dislikes. That is the important thing to find happiness for both of you in being intimate.
In regard to birth control, you can ask your doctor about birth control pills. If this is something you would like to do, you doctor can recommend a particular pill to try. You will take it every day of the month. Condoms are good if you don't want to have to take a pill every day, or don't want the hormones in your system. If used correctly, condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. Birth control pills taken as your doctor tells you to take them is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy. It is a personal choice which is right for you.
Here are a couple articles that may interest you:
Book Review: 6 Steps To True Intimacy and Sexual Adundance, Which Method of Birth Control Should I Use? Part I, and Part II
Good luck, and let us know if you need more information.
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