My boyfriend has similar activities that I just found out about and am not very happy about to be honest. This weekend (the whole four day weekend) we had sex about 3 or 4 times per day and last night I woke up in the middle of the night and caught him masterbating (laying right next to me in the bed). I couldn't believe it! I was upset for so many different reasons that I didn't say anything because I barely knew where to begin. The bad thing is that after he was masterbating for a while (and I pretended to be sleep) he proceeded to roll over and finish off inside of me. I was pissed off by that because of course he came very quickly after masterbating for about half an hour. I have a very high sex drive so I'm always ready for it, but I felt a bit weird and a little used when he decided to "wake me up" just so he could climax. I don't even know what it means that he did that!
As far as your situation goes, the only issue I would say you should have is that he is lying to you about doing it. My boyfriend said he wasn't doing anything wrong, so I asked if that is true then why did he sneak around and do it? That is definitely something you should get him to understand. You can't stop him from doing it when you're not around, but there is no need to lie and make it worst!
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My boyfriend has similar activities that I just found out about and am not very happy about to be honest. This weekend (the whole four day weekend) we had sex about 3 or 4 times per day and last night I woke up in the middle of the night and caught him masterbating (laying right next to me in the bed). I couldn't believe it! I was upset for so many different reasons that I didn't say anything because I barely knew where to begin. The bad thing is that after he was masterbating for a while (and I pretended to be sleep) he proceeded to roll over and finish off inside of me. I was pissed off by that because of course he came very quickly after masterbating for about half an hour. I have a very high sex drive so I'm always ready for it, but I felt a bit weird and a little used when he decided to "wake me up" just so he could climax. I don't even know what it means that he did that!
As far as your situation goes, the only issue I would say you should have is that he is lying to you about doing it. My boyfriend said he wasn't doing anything wrong, so I asked if that is true then why did he sneak around and do it? That is definitely something you should get him to understand. You can't stop him from doing it when you're not around, but there is no need to lie and make it worst!
November 28, 2011 - 6:26pmThis Comment
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