It does indeed sound like your partner has a fetish.
People generally do NOT become unattached to their fetish, ESPECIALLY if they don't want to. Stop giving him double messages by pretending to like this activity. If you value sex, and this fetish doesn't satisfy you, it makes no sense to continue the relationship.
There is NO reason to think that his fetish has anything to do with your attractiveness or loveability. It's about him, not you. Your job is to move on without making either of you wrong. That's a challenge, but it's the healthy way to end the relationship.
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It does indeed sound like your partner has a fetish.
March 22, 2011 - 8:02pmPeople generally do NOT become unattached to their fetish, ESPECIALLY if they don't want to. Stop giving him double messages by pretending to like this activity. If you value sex, and this fetish doesn't satisfy you, it makes no sense to continue the relationship.
There is NO reason to think that his fetish has anything to do with your attractiveness or loveability. It's about him, not you. Your job is to move on without making either of you wrong. That's a challenge, but it's the healthy way to end the relationship.
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