I'm so glad I left him! Funny that it was actually 4 years ago today! I'm happy and emotionally healthy now. I use my experience to reach out and help other women. Abuse comes in many forms, not just physical!
I failed to mention that my ex was majorly addicted to porn. This, I believe was the main cause of his problem in the bedroom. A woman should never have to compete with porn for her mate's affection! If I'm ever in another relationship, I love myself too much to tolerate what I did before, and too smart to stay if it's not healthy!