Thank you for your quick response. This is a great website. I don't know if he has been to a doctor, but I know he is aware of it since he mentioned it, and must have had this experience with other women. He is 49 and has never been married - if that means anything...??
He is emotionally unavailable in a way, even though he really works with me for ME to become emotionally available - it's kind of weird.
Sex has become a little nerve wracking lately...I could tell he was gettting frustrated - just didn't realize he was placing it 100% on ME. Now I'm afraid I'm going to have performance anxiety - but I'm willing to try again.
I'm definately re evaluating the whole relationship, as I am already crazy about him, and don't want to pick another emotionally (and now PHYSICALLY ) unavailable guy!
I'm going to start another conversation and see where it leads - good idea and thanks very much.