Hi Marysmith,
When you say it hurts you, do you know why it hurts? Where does it hurt? Have you been to see a doctor about these symptoms? It may be a good idea to get checked out and see if there is a medical reason why you are having problems with sex. As far as that boyfriend telling you "you can't do anything right." That is a whole other issue. A true partner should be supportive and not be demeaning. You don't have to put up with him being that way toward you. He is your boyfriend, not your husband. In a dating situation, you can choose to not be with him anymore. If you were married, you could also choose to not be with him, but it often is more difficult to separate as children or assets like a house or cars, etc. may be involved. If you feel threatened by your boyfriend, you can also talk with your doctor about that. There are resources all over for getting past toxic relationships. Good luck, and let us know if you need more information.
Take care.
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Hi Marysmith,
April 21, 2011 - 9:00amWhen you say it hurts you, do you know why it hurts? Where does it hurt? Have you been to see a doctor about these symptoms? It may be a good idea to get checked out and see if there is a medical reason why you are having problems with sex. As far as that boyfriend telling you "you can't do anything right." That is a whole other issue. A true partner should be supportive and not be demeaning. You don't have to put up with him being that way toward you. He is your boyfriend, not your husband. In a dating situation, you can choose to not be with him anymore. If you were married, you could also choose to not be with him, but it often is more difficult to separate as children or assets like a house or cars, etc. may be involved. If you feel threatened by your boyfriend, you can also talk with your doctor about that. There are resources all over for getting past toxic relationships. Good luck, and let us know if you need more information.
Take care.
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