Thanks again...you're awesome and very optomistic..as I am. I really appreciate that :) That's a great idea..there is a great hiking trail up a waterfall in upstate ny that I've been to that I love and now would be a great time to take a ride up there. I know that this is abnormal I've always had an active and healthy sex life with my past lover and if anything I would have to calm him down and he wanted it all the time lol!...but I loved it! I miss that so much but not giving up on this guy just yet. I love him dearly and know he feels the same so have to get him to snap out of it. thanks again for your input, it has been very helpful.
Will definitely keep you posted as to what happens :) Have a great week..